What to say when someone criticizes you?

Here are six ways to respond to criticism and maintain your self-respect:Listen before you speak.Ask questions.Focus on the facts.Communicate by phone or in-person to avoid miscommunication.Talk with another person to gain perspective.Reflect on the situation that led to the criticism.

How do you criticize with kindness?

how to criticise with kindnessYou should attempt to re-express your target’s position so clearly, vividly, and fairly that your target says, “Thanks, I wish I’d thought of putting it that way.You should list any points of agreement (especially if they are not matters of general or widespread agreement).

How do you respond to a negative criticism?

6 Positive Responses To Negative CriticismDon’t shut down when you get criticized. Just because someone calls you a name does not make it so. Resist the temptation to fight back when you get criticized. View criticism as potentially beneficial. Look for the truth in every criticism. Clarify the real issue. Practice detachment when necessary.